Who will you become in five years?
Will you be the same person you are today, living a similar lifestyle?
Or will you be a radically different person, with contrasting beliefs, goals, and preferences?
According to research, most of us believe that we’ll maintain the same beliefs, goals, preferences, and behavior as our past selves. We believe that we’ll continue to plod along the trajectory our past selves set, destined for the same end-goal.
That belief is flawed, and in some cases, downright wrong.
Our personality is constantly evolving. The person we are today is not the same person we’ll be in five years.
What? That’s silly. I’m me either way, aren’t I?
Think about it this way: are you the same person you were five years ago? Ten years ago? Fifteen years ago?
Of course not. Things in your life have changed: your interests, hobbies, decision-making process, and habits are different than they were a decade ago.
Past you ≠ present you. Present you ≠ future you.