
How many days have you felt like this?
You toss and turn all night. Wake up groggy. Curse at theย alarm.
You stumble through a morningย fog. You’reย drowsy, even after two cups of coffee. You stare at the computer screen feeling overwhelmed and unfocused. You get sucked into Email Hell. You spend the rest of the day bouncing between interruptions and distractions.
You finishย the day knowing you’veย accomplished nothing.
You’re frustrated. You want to accomplishย so much. Launch a business. Travel. You have a vision for your life. But days, weeks, months tick by without progress.
You’ve chastised yourself toย “work harder.”ย You’ve givenย yourself pep talks.ย And yet … yet … you can’t break the cycle.
Sound familiar?
Let’s fix it.
First, let’s identify a few common problems:
You’reย sleep-deprived. You’re not exercising. You eat junk.
Your mornings suck. Afternoons are worse.ย You bounce from task-to-task. By eveningย you’re exhausted, but you’re not sure how you spent your day.
“Okay, okay, stop making me feel bad. What’s the solution?”
You hold the answer.
You’ve developed habits — hundreds of habits, which you repeat daily.ย You brush your teeth, tie your shoelaces and wear clean underwear out of sheer habit.ย You don’t give yourself pep talks.
If you want to move closer to your goals, forget motivation. Forget willpower. Focus on building strongย habits.
I’d like to share some of my favoriteย habits and tools that improve my focus, energy and output. When I stick to these, I get results. When I don’t, I work harderย butย accomplishย less.
I’ve organized this article into three sections:
- How toย create energized mornings
- How to stay focused allย day
- How to sleep deeply and wake upย refreshed
As always, take what works, tweak as needed, and ignore the rest. If something doesn’t fit into your life/work, skip it and move on.
If you’d like a PDF of these habits to print or save to your computer, you can download one for free below.
Makeย Mornings Awesomeย
Here are sixย ways that Iย energize myย morning.
#1: Drink a Pint of Water
Your body dehydrates while you sleep. (Do you pee yellow in the morning?)ย As a result, you’re less focused in the morning.
I drink aย pint of water (16 oz.) the moment I wake up. I’ll squeeze aย lemon into the water (this helps) for an extra kick.
I turned this into a habit byย associating it with an existing habit.ย You could do the same. Find a trigger; an action you perform every morning.ย Here are a fewย choices:
- Before you brush your teeth
- Before your morningย coffee
- Before you wear shoes
Immediately follow one habit with the other. Your mind willย bundle these together as the same action.
#2: Eat Protein
Eat protein and complex carbsย when youย wake up, even if you’re not hungry.ย My favorite is two eggs, hard-boiled or over easy, with a small bowl of lentils or beans.
How do you start this habit? Ifย you eat breakfast, the action is ingrained.ย Changeย only the food (if needed); don’t change the routine.
If you don’t eat breakfast yet, find a trigger. Do you brewย coffee? This is your ‘anchor.’ Drop your new habit into this spot. Start with food that requires almost-no prep or cleanup. The easier, the better.
#3: Exercise for Two Minutes
I spent years telling myself I “didn’t have time” to exercise in the morning. Then I discovered this routine:
Stretch for one minute.ย I mean this literally. Set the timerย on your phone for 60 seconds.ย When the timer finishes, try jumping jacks, burpees, or planking for one minute.ย Total time commitment: two minutes.
What’s the point? You’ll feel better (even after two minutes). More importantly, you’re building aย habit.ย Two minutes canย later extend to four minutes, which becomes eight. Nice job.
#4:ย Focus on Marginal Gains
Add otherย steps into this morning chain, such as journaling, reading, or practicing a foreign language.ย Just start small.
If you launch with an ambitious 20-minute goal, you’llย quit at the first inconvenienceย —ย before habit-formation. Instead, createย marginal gains.ย If you don’t meditate yet, start with one to two minutes.ย You can’t scale unless you’ve cemented the habit first.
#5:ย Maintain the Chain
Tie these habits together, so every action leads toย the next. For example:
Use toilet > brush teeth > drink water > meditate > stretch > exercise > showerย > dress > brewย coffee while makingย breakfast.
This is a chain.ย Every action triggers the next one. Ifย you maintain the chain forย 3-4 weeks, these actions convertย intoย habits. Your job is to protect the chain.
Which leads to the next tipย …
#6: Build aย Playlist
Listen toย the same playlistย every morning. You’ll start associating sounds with actions.
You brush your teeth when the music starts. You drink water at the chorus. You start stretching atย this particular verse.
Your morning playlist turns into a series of triggers. When you hear this sound, youย take this action.
As a bonus, the music sets theย pace. You won’t need to checkย the clock.
(Thanks to Charles Duhigg, Leo Babauta and Hal Elrod, whose writings inspired theย tips above.)
How to Stay Focusedย
Here areย a few tips that help me stay focused at work.
#1: Plan Every Hour
I finish everyย workday by planning the following day’s tasks. I’ll start the day by reviewing this plan.ย For example:
- Edit blog post (9 am โ 11 am)
- Draft lessonย for real estate course and send feedback on video (11 am โ 3 pm)
- Podcast interview (3 pm โ 4 pm)
- Email the online business listย (4 pm โ 5 pm)
- Answer email, comments and social media (5 pm โ 7 pm)
Of course, nothing goes according to plan.ย Every action expands beyond the time I give it (damn you, Parkinson!)
Yet daily planning is critical.ย It helps me spot inefficiencies. It shows me what tasks toย eliminate/automate/delegate. Without a plan, I sit at my computer thinking “????,” wander into the Dark Depths of Email Hell, and achieve nothing.
Planning is more important than sticking to a plan. It creates aย daily habit of contemplationย about how to investย your time.
#2: Use E.ggtimer
I useย e.ggtimer.com toย countdown theย time I’ve allocated a taskย โ 60 minutes for this, 90 minutesย for that. Limiting task time helps meย take advantage ofย Parkinson’s Law.
Remembering to use this tool is the toughest part. How can you make this a habit?
- Hideย every browser tab except e.ggtimer and mission-critical tabs. (OneTab is great for this.)
- Set the timer.
- Repeat.
When you limit browser tabs, you limit distractions, take action on the open tabs, and repeat until it’s second nature.
#3:ย Skip Lunch
This seemsย counterintuitive:ย Skip your lunch break (unless you’re meeting someone).ย Nothing kills productivity like a heavy meal.
Iย nibble on snacks throughout the day. This carries two benefits:
- Iย avoid a mid-afternoon energy crash.
- Iย take multiple mini-breaks instead of one prolongedย hiatus.
How can you start this habit?
- Keep healthy snacks at your desk. I like cashews, orangesย and proteinย bars.
- Sip a smoothie while you work.
- Drink loads of water.
Sure, your desk will resemble a dining table. But you’ll snack without noticing, which means you won’t be ravenous at lunchtime.
By the way, here’s the world’s easiest smoothie recipe:
- Spinach
- Kale
- Mixed berries (CostCo frozen)
- Water
- Optional: banana for sweetness; cucumber for flavor.
Keepย a pintย at your desk; you’ll absentmindedlyย sip throughout the day.
#4: Plan Tomorrow
Before you finish working, plan the following day. Create an hour-by-hour plan,ย like I covered in the example above.
Use any tool except email: Evernote, Google Calendar, whatever.ย I use a physical notepad and pen, which denotes heft in a world where everything is digital.
Snooze to Success
Sleep is crucial toย productivity. Yet most people (myself included) areย sleep deprived anyway.ย Here’s how Iย battleย restlessness:
#1: Remove Blue-Wavelength Light
“… Exposure to excessive light at night, including extended use of various electronic media, can disrupt sleep,” theย American Medical Association says. Duh. Sounds obvious.
But theyย threw a curveball:ย “This effect can be minimized by using dim red lighting in the nighttime bedroom environment.” Whaaa??
As it turns out, the human eye contains a photoreceptor called melanopsin, which is tied toย the section of our brainย that controls our sleep/wake rhythm. Melanopsin is sensitive to blue-green visible light.ย Studies show a strongย link between alertness and blue light exposure.
That’s not surprising if you think about it.ย The natural daylight spectrum is packed withย blue light. Campfires and candles grow red. Not a coincidence that blue lightย triggers alertness while red light doesn’t.
Laptop, iPad and TVย screens imitate natural daylight, which keeps our brains buzzing.ย Sure, it’s best to avoid screens after dusk, but let’s be realistic. The second-best choiceย is to remove the blue wavelengths.
Use a free browser extension likeย f.luxย or g.lux, which automaticallyย remove blue-spectrum lighting when you work late. (This is a tool, not a habit — but it’s awesome.)
#2:ย Exerciseย 20 Minutes a Day
Exercising atย least 2.5 hours per week correlates with falling asleep faster and waking up refreshed, according to a study of 2,600 adults. That’s 20 minutes a day. It can take awhile toย build to 20 minutes; start with two minutes to establishย the habit.
One problem — working outย too lateย disrupts sleep in some peopleย (myself included), thanks to elevatedย body temperature and adrenaline. As an alternative, tryย bedtime yogaย onย YouTube.
#3: Never Sleep Hungry
Most fitness experts recommend avoiding late-night snacks. But I’ve found that slumbering with an empty stomach leads to bleary mornings.
Solution? Eatย one tablespoon of peanut butter before bed. (Or tryย cashew, almond, whatever nut is trendy this month.) Linkย this to aย habit chain: spoon, water, toothbrush.
#4: Drink a Pint
Guzzleย a pint of water (16 oz.) before bed.ย If chuggingย is unpleasant, sip whileย you’re winding down. Speaking of whichย ย โฆ
#5: Unwind for 30 Minutes
One of my worst habits is trying to leap from working (emails, planning, writing) to sleeping, without any intervening buffer. Even if I resist screensย (e.g., writing on a legal pad), my mind races with work-related thoughts, which interferes withย sleep.
Recently I started a wind-down period. I’ll spend 30+ minutes reading a book, which might be about business/finance, but also might cover any random topic.ย Recent books I’ve read include this paperback by John Grisham, this classic on the magicย of thinking big, this treatise on writing well, and this embarrassment that exposes me as a crazy cat lady.
(P.S. — If you have trouble sleeping,ย read this.)
#6: Wear a Sleep Mask
Did anyone read Chelsea Handler’sย memoir?
In one scene, Chelsea gets thrown in jail for a night. Her arrestย doesn’t phase her, though. She’s more upset about the fact that her jailers didn’t provide a sleeping mask.
I can relate. (Well, not to the jail part.) I share her overzealous enthusiasm for eyeย masks.
Light disrupts sleep.ย Blackout curtainsย help, but not enough. Sleeping masks are better, plus they’re dirt-cheap.
I like theseย so much that I own three: one that lives next toย my bed, another stashed inย my luggage 24/7, and one forย my laptop case (why, I’m not sure).
To kickstart theย habit, keep your sleeping mask on your pillow. You’re more likely to use it when it’s as convenient as possible.
#7: Avoid Caffeine After 11 a.m.
I don’t drink caffeine in the afternoon (well, most of the time). When I break my own rule, I notice. Caffeine is terrible for sleep, even hours later.
#8: Carry Earplugs
I live in downtown Las Vegas, which means 3-4 nights every week I fall asleep againstย the high-pitched shrill of tourists belting Katy Perry lyrics as they stumble past my building, searching for the nearest roulette table. Sigh. Baby, you are a firework.
As you might imagine,ย I loveย earplugs.
If you live somewhere reasonable, you won’t need earplugs at home, but carry these when you travel. They’reย helpful for snoozing in airplanes, hotels andย anywhere with unpredictable noise.
Easy implementation: Toss a few earplugs into your luggage/laptop case, where they’ll live forever. Grab them when you need them. And trust me, you’ll know when you’ll need them.
#9: Listen to Boring Bedtime Stories
When earplugs aren’t enough, or when my mindย is racing (“what’s the point of life? Do those pants fit? What do fish think?”), I listen to this sleep podcast.ย The host tells unbearably boring stories that conk you out. (Don’t worry; this is intentional.)
To boostย monotony, I listen to the same episode every time (this one). To skipย straight to the snoozefest, start at the 22-minute mark. (The first 22 minutes are dull, but not sufficiently sleep-inducing.)
Feel free toย share suggestions for other sleep-inducing podcasts in the comments. (Uh-oh. I hope nobody says mine …)
#10: Buy a Great Pillow and Mattress
My junior year of college, I slept on an inflatable camping pad for months untilย I received a freeย hand-me-down mattress.
Ugh. I’m definitely not 19 anymore.
If you have discretionary cash, buy a comfy mattress and pillow. It’s not an “investment,” but it’s a damn goodย consumer purchase.ย If you’reย budget-conscious, get a good pillow and mattress topper.
Time is Your Most Limitedย Asset
As I’ve mentioned in other articles, time is your most valuable asset. You can’t earnย more; you can only spend wisely.ย Developing strong habits can saveย hours — or days —ย of otherwise squandered time.
You can wake up well-rested and hydrated. Enjoy your morning. Dive into work with enthusiasm. Maintainย focus. Smile more. And fall asleepย knowing you’re one stepย closer to a betterย life.




